A Time to Brag.

This past year, I have learned the real definition of what a friend is. Not only what comes to mind when I hear the word, but what I have personally experienced myself. To me, a friend is someone who possesses a servant's heart, sacrifices their own time, and pours themselves into you. I've always known these things are huge and vital, but not until this past year have I witnessed it in my own friends. 

They are so selfless, always reminding me that it's not about myself. They encourage me, not only by their words, but by their actions. More often than not, they consistently teach me huge lessons without even realizing it.

All of those aspects I mentioned above are awesome and inspiring, but one thing I have experienced this year in particular, is that a true friend will not be afraid to constructively criticize me. If you're reading this and you truly know me, you fully understand that I mess up constantly. I tear people down with unkind words, I put my problems and excitements before others', I don't love like I should, and on and on and on the list goes. Needless to say, I need to be called out on my sin because it is disgusting and can get out of hand quicker than I like to think. 

If my heart is a garden and weeds are sin, I need a helper.

I am so thankful to my Father for providing friends like mine. The friendships I have always had, have become so close-knit this past year, that I can only say it's because of God's sovereignty. I am in constant need of someone who will call me out on my sin and God knows it. I'm so grateful that He has laid the blessing of my friends on my heart so heavily these days. The Lord is so faithful to His children, even in the area of relationships.

So, to all of my friends - those from church, school, camp, and volleyball alike - thank you for encouraging me in my Walk and giving me a visible example of how I am to live a life pleasing to God. For, without you all, I would only be weeds for miles and miles...